Recently when I posted this pic of a Praying Mantis on Facbook, my favorite Irish Buddhist Monk (yes, I really do have a favorite Irish Buddhist Monk!) commented that it should be known as a “preying” mantis.  I’ve been thinking about his observation all week and wondering whether many of us spend more time “praying” or “preying”.  It’s pretty easy to keep track of our prayer time.  Generally, that’s something that we can measure with a watch or a clock.  Oh sure, we sneak in an extra minute or two when we pause to look at something beautiful or spend a moment reflecting on the meaning of life and love but in reality most of us could, if we’re honest, put a number on our “prayer” time.  But how about the time we spend “preying”?  I’m talking about those moments when we take advantage of others or put our own desires ahead of someone’s genuine needs.  What about the times when we obnoxiously impose our opinions on the people around us and overlook or ignore the pain we have caused through our actions or inactions.  And yes, let’s not forget the countless times that we speak in anger over a perceived slight, a petty annoyance or just because it makes us feel righteous, important or momentarily (and falsely) powerful.  Do we spend more time “praying” or “preying”?  It’s not mine to judge…except for myself.  Hope you do better at “praying” than I do!